People allow toxic relationships to fester in their lives too often. The result can be a complete loss of trust in others and a loss of confidence and self-esteem. It can create fear that destroys people's ability to ever want to allow themselves to be in any type of relationship at all. There isn't any easy way to press on. There isn't anything that instantly changes your thought process to trust again. You want to hit that reset button, but you think you can't. You have gone from a toxic relationship with someone else to a toxic fear and toxic relationship with yourself. I've been there. I've allowed that toxicity to take over my thoughts and I ended up hurting people close to me. I've used that lack of trust, the anger, the hurt and projected it on those who did nothing to me. I was afraid to be open with anyone. That feeling of helplessness is paralyzing. In "Lead Like Jesus" Ken Blanchard says that fear is a gift from God. It allows us to take heed and protects us unless we allow it to destroy our ability to live. "Toxic fear is a complete anti-God state of mind. It is a good thing turned bad." Relationships aren't easy. There are twists and turns. Good and bad. Joy and pain. I believe that God pushes us to realize the potential we have through the events that help shape us. I trust that everything we experience has meaning. You just have to release those toxins. Accept your role in the moment and realize that the only control something or someone has on you is what you allow. While it is easier said then done, it can be done. It begins with you laying down the burden and picking up your faith. You get to have a beautiful life and every day is another chance to do it... Today is a wonderful day to start.
Believe In The Unbelievable that is YOU and my prayer for you today is that you let yourself detox. Put your worries before God. Let Him guide you through the moment and allow yourself the beauty of living the gift of life God has given to you.
Have a blessed, safe and healthy day everyone.
DC
"All things are possible if you believe." Mark 9:23
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